[PAULUS libro septimo ad Sabinum. ] §24.3.3.prNon solum autem in exigenda, sed etiam in soluenda dote, quae communis est patris et filiae, utriusque uoluntas exquiritur nec alter alterius deteriorem condicionem facere potest.
Moreover, not only in demanding but also in returning the dowry, which is common to the father and the daughter, the will of both is required, and neither can make the other's condition worse.
sed si pecunia ad patrem peruenit, quam filia accepit, actio de dote utrisque tolletur.
But if the money which the daughter received comes to the father, the action for dowry will be lost to both.